Happy Holidays SHEEX Giveaway!

SHEEX

Don’t you just want to take a nap, now?

If you like sleeping as much as I do (and boy, does sleep ever take on a whole new otherworldly quality once you’re a parent), you want to sleep on sheets that are comfy and cozy. With that in mind, the nice folks at SHEEX have offered up a set of their lovely and oh-so comfy SHEEX for one lucky winner.

For those who didn’t read my review of SHEEX and are wondering “Wot’s all this then?!”, check out the review and then come back to enter the giveaway. The short version is that they’re these insanely soft, rather wonderful microfiber sheets that make sleeping a really fantastic experience.

Trust me when I say that this is a giveaway worth entering. SHEEX, as lovely as they are, don’t come for a song. These sweet things come in sets that start at $159 (and run as high as $239). And, while you can get them yourself at places like Bed Bath + Beyond, wouldn’t it be more fun to win a set?

To enter, simply go to http://www.sheex.com/crunchymetromom and provide your e-mail address, first name and last name. It’s that simple! The winner will be chosen at random based on all entries received by December 15, 2012, and they will be contacted by December 31, 2012.

I love my SHEEX and my dear winner-yet-to-be-named, I’m sure you’ll love yours, too.Happy Holidays, y’all! Now get enterin’!

 

Congratulations to Janie M., the winner of the giveaway!

Click here to start the music: a 3-month review of RadioBDC

Just about three months ago, my aural anguish was soothed dramatically by the launch of RadioBDC, the online-only radio launched by Boston.com (the digital arm of the Boston Globe). When alt-rock radio icon WFNX went silent over the air (OTA) as the sale of its frequency to ClearChannel pushed it to the web only, it jettisoned all of its DJ’s. Of course, you could still listen to WFNX online (and still can), but the soul of the station was gone. The departure of its program director, Paul Driscoll, and all the jocks I was so used to hearing (such as Henry Santoro, Julie Kramer, and Adam 12), left a terrible void in my workday and on my car radio.

In a fit of corporate purging, I went through my car radio presets and expunged any sign of Clear Channel stations, opting to fill every preset with the few remaining indie/public radio stations and leaving the rest for WERS (Emerson College radio). These days, most of what you hear in my car is either NPR – my palliative against road rage – or selections from “Schoolhouse Rock! Rocks” (a fan favorite with the kiddos). I can listen to RadioBDC in my car, thanks to a spiffy app that I installed on my iPhone (also available for Android and Blackberry), but I typically try to keep my non-wireless data usage fairly well in check so as not to train myself to be a data hound once my plan flips to metered at next renewal.

So, this means I usually listen to RadioBDC only during the workday and on the weekends or evenings, when I’m puttering in the kitchen. At work, I put on RadioBDC through my web browser, and at home I’ll pipe it through my iPhone. Showing just how much he truly loves me, on Thanksgiving morning, dh put RadioBDC on via the iPad and plugged it into our stereo so I could blast it all morning long while I chopped and chopped…and chopped…getting my stuffing ready to go for the evening meal.

And now that we’re three months in, what’s the verdict?

I’d say RadioBDC is a win, and here’s why…

I’m a tough audience. I like music. A LOT. Having worked at a record store in my formative years, I have a voracious love of music that I’m trying to pass along to my kids. But that said, there’s some stuff I just can’t suffer to be bothered with. Heavy rotation (playing the same song within a 2hr timespan) doesn’t work too well for me, having gotten MTV-PTSD from seeing the Bruce Springsteen video for “War” played every hour, on the hour, when I was much younger. Some alt bands, like Pearl Jam and Cage the Elephant, make me reach for the mute button. So, to find a station that I’ll listen to all day with no more than a couple of “mutes” is really rare. The variety of music gives me something new pretty much every day, and I don’t hear the same songs every single hour.

Some examples of what I heard in just one stretch yesterday morning:

  • “Sun” by Two Door Cinema Club
  • “Kettling” by Bloc Party
  • “Little Talks” by Of Monsters and Men
  • “Viva la Vida” by Coldplay
  • “Blood Red Youth” by California Wives
  • “Skyfall” by Adele
  • “You Are a Tourist” by Death Cab for Cutie
  • “Steve McQueen” by M83

If a standard way to judge the awesomeness of a music selection is that you’re pretty sure you’re going to get a UTI from failing to get up from your desk because they just put on YET ANOTHER song you really want to hear, you’re clearly listening to the right radio station. It hurt my heart to have to turn off RadioBDC as I headed to a meeting this afternoon; they were playing “Don’t Panic” by Coldplay, one of my favorite songs on the truly fantastic “Garden State” soundtrack, and I was really disappointed to have to interrupt it.

While not being OTA, RadioBDC is clearly a real, functioning radio station: it has all the same trappings. RadioBDC does giveaways, sponsors shows and holds events. Even better, RadioBDC has “Live in the Lab” mini-concerts at the station (housed in the same building with the rest of the Globe folks), which they stream live and archive for later viewing/listening via the station’s web site. There’s also the “+1” free concert series with (mostly) emerging artists playing at local venues. Listeners can enter to win or simply sign up for free admission to attend events, which seem to run every few weeks or so. There’s still a vital and vibrant connection to the alt rock scene, bringing forward new and established artists in both pre-recorded and live formats. One big “get” for the station was the recent announcement that they’re sponsoring the “Hometown Throwdown”, the longtime annual series of pre-New Year’s shows done by The Mighty Mighty Bosstones. You couldn’t do that if you were just some little startup with no-name DJs or a computer powering all your airplay selection. Or I suppose you could…but everyone would know that it was about being a poseur and not about really being a part of the Boston music scene.

That leads me to the people and just how important they are. The jocks keep the station human. There’s no algorithm picking what I hear during my workday. The music is picked by the people who know music I like, and I even get to contribute my own suggestions. During Adam 12’s “4 o’clock Free-For-All” set, I’ve had the pleasure of getting several of my requests played (submitted via my personal twitter handle, often prompting “12” to sweetly send out a “Hey Jude” before each song). You just don’t get that at most radio stations, where it’s either all pre-programmed or it’s so corporatized that you can’t get them to step outside of what they were paid to play. These DJ’s are the people who have the connections to the bands, to the scene, to the music. When WFNX laid them off, they stupidly got rid of their true capital, the greatest worth of the station.

The relationship with Boston.com and the Boston Globe also strengthens what the station brings to the air. Henry Santoro, the newsman of the jock set, gets news direct from the bullpen at the paper. Several Globe reporters, columnists and bloggers come on air throughout the week to talk about what’s going on in their corner of the world. Not only does this get you some more in-depth analysis of what’s happening in the Boston area, it also means you finally get to hear the voices of some of the people who’ve only spoken to you through newsprint all these years.

I think there’s also something to be said for having built something real. Within the last few weeks, RadioBDC announced the addition of several more DJ’s – including other refugees from WFNX – who are adding their own flavor and shows. This stepped approached to building the station’s format and design is clearly measured and cautious, designed for growth and stability. Truly, setting aside the lack of the OTA component (for which they’ve built nifty app/browser-based workarounds), it’s a real, live alt rock radio station. I listen to it as much as I can, I tweet with the DJ’s and keep an eye on what they post, since there’s almost always some nugget of information or humor worth passing along or checking out.

And here’s the final point that I really need to make, if it isn’t already apparent from what I’ve written before on this blog: I don’t shill. I’m not a corporate mouthpiece, and I don’t write about things because someone pays me to. I write about things that I’m interested in or things that make me happy. I do the occasional review of things that people are kind enough to let me try out, but I don’t take every review opportunity out there because there’s a lot of stuff that just doesn’t interest me at all. I wouldn’t write all these nice things about RadioBDC if I didn’t really believe in what they’re doing and enjoy their product – and I can assure you that they didn’t pay me to write any of this. I don’t even have a RadioBDC shirt…much as I’d totally wear one. (hint hintha ha)

If the mark of a brand being successful is having people advocate for it without ever receiving a red cent, then you can definitely call them a success. But, to say that they’ve given me nothing would be a lie. I’ve gotten hours of enjoyment from listening to the music, hearing the DJ’s talk, reading their tweets and blog posts, seeing and hearing the Live in the Lab sessions on my computer, and watching Frank Turner belt out his songs in their first streaming event. I was there the night they “launched” at the Paradise, and I can’t imagine having been anywhere else that night.

Real radio does that, and RadioBDC is definitely the real deal.

Parenting dilemma #347: When to start grounding your kids

As someone who spent the better portion of my teens in some state of “grounding”, it should come as little surprise that my firstborn would get an early start on things. Yes, at the tender age of 6 (just turned, even!), dd has now experienced her first grounding. It’s not something I planned but, you see, I was at my wit’s end.

Backing thing up a little…

A few weeks back, dh went on a work trip out of town for several days. While he was gone, dd was INSISTENT that she needed to sleep in my bed (much as she was steadfast that she couldn’t sleep alone while I was out of town for BlogHer’12 earlier this year), and I – foolishly? – gave in to this request. Now, it’s easy to cluck tongues and remind me that this is only going to lead to bad things, but let me start off by saying: A) I KNOW, and B) it’s awfully easy to say “don’t do it!” when you’re not the one facing the night of lost sleep while shuttling back and forth between bedrooms trying to get her to SHUT UP already. This isn’t to say that I think co-sleeping is a bad thing, no matter what the AAP says. My daughter is six, and it’s unlikely that she’s going to experience negative effects from co-sleeping other than future difficulties breaking the habit and the fact that my bed is higher off the ground than hers (longer way to fall).

This started in the first night dh was gone and continued for the next several nights, while he was away. Naturally, when dh managed to luck into an earlier flight than expected, one that returned just before midnight (so he could sleep in his own bed one night earlier), she planted her feet in full-on rebellion and tried to wheel and deal. She’d be quiet if she could sleep in our bed until dh came home and then he could move her to her bed. Uh, no. *freaks out* She’d be quiet if she could sleep in our bed all night. NO. *freaks out* Head, meet wall. Repeatedly. I can’t fully remember how it all went but I seem to recall that I didn’t get her to stop fussing until about two hours or so after I put her down. Maybe 2-1/2hrs. It’s all a blur.

And then we get fast-forward to this holiday weekend, where it seemed like things were going downhill fast, as the little miss decided on Friday night that she needed to be in our bed. Over the next several hours, it became apparent to both me and dh that she was going to insist on coming into our bed even though both of us just wanted our space. He didn’t feel well thanks to some kind of stomach bug, and I have been fighting a miserable cough for weeks. My initial attempt to get her to sleep was around 7:30pm. We would be fighting this battle with her, on and off, for the next 2-ish hours.

I tried reasoning with her. I tried appealing to her sense of self-preservation (“You don’t want to get {whatever crud it is that we have}!”). Nothing worked. DH tried similar appeals. Both of us even threatened to take away privileges, as a last-ditch effort. Still, nothing worked.

Sure enough, she ended up in our bed around 1:20am.

At that point, I’d already told dh I wanted her grounded, not sure what that would mean much beyond “you’re not allowed out of your room except for potty breaks and meals”. She agreed to be grounded in exchange for sleeping in our bed, to which dh responded, incredulous: “I’ve never heard of anyone asking to be grounded before!” I suppose it’s also easy to be incredulous at 1:20am. At that time of day, at our age, any activity is surprising.

So, Saturday morning began the DAY OF THE GROUNDING. She didn’t understand why she couldn’t come with me on a trip to Kohl’s to buy presents for the kiddo whose Christmas we’re underwriting through an “adopt a child” program. She didn’t get why she couldn’t go out to play. She didn’t understand why she couldn’t linger in the den after a meal was over.

I feel for her, really I do. But having already revoked her privileges to her bike, her scooter and TV for a WEEK over the fuss she put up the night dh was coming home from his trip, I wasn’t sure what I could take away that would have an impact. We’re looking at implementing some kind of system that will be more along the line of positive reinforcement, probably in conjunction with her responsibility chart (using only a handful of items as the responsibilities we’ll track).

There’s a part of me that says that there’s nothing we can do to get a six-year-old to fall in line, but there’s another part of me that’s sure this isn’t true, that there are disciplinary and proactively reinforcing measures that will work. I’m just not sure what they are. I’d prefer not to have to ground her again anytime soon, especially since I’m not really sure that it has any real effect at this age. If anybody has any suggestions – short of corporal punishment, which I’m desperately trying to avoid – I’d love to know. What has worked for you with your kiddos, ’round about that 6yr age range?